Kaffy Discloses The Only Reason A Woman Should Be Submissive To Her Husband

 

Nigerian choreographer, Kafayat Shafau popularly known as Kaffy has shared her thoughts on what submission means. She opined that submission shouldn't make women slaves or that she loses her voice in the process. She emphasized that what would have happened if submission is a person, that person would have committed suicide.

"The word “Submission” if it were a human being would have committed suicide because of the falsehood attached to how it’s name has been used."

According to the dancer, there's more to submission and it has to do with agreement. She stated that woman can submit to her husband on one condition. She must only submit to one who would obtain what she carries in her that God wants to manifest into the world.

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"First of all the word does not mean one is a slave to another nor does it mean a woman must lower her voice , essence and purpose just because she is in the presence of a man.

Submission here to me (my point of view) is more of being in agreement with the thought, purpose, assignment and essence a man carries as this would gravely affect the amount of selfless , sacrifice and trust a woman needs to have to become the Favour God has ordained her to be to the man. And don’t forget every woman carrying Favour is a woman with a dream and essence and assignment too. She MUST only submit to one who would obtain what she carries in her that God wants to manifest into the world .

"Man being a Lord , Custodian or asked to LOVE his wife also comes from a place of nurturing , developing , enduring ,learning , and so many more Christ – like qualities . And not just emotional and financial provision . The world needs to be a better place and it takes people who understands their assignment and purpose on earth .

"A lot of our men don’t even have clarity of self , too much pressure ,distractions and expectations created by culture , society in fact safe to say expectations of the FLESH over that of the kingdom has led to a lot of straying of souls .

Both men and women need a break to gain clarity , to find themselves before seeking a partner .

God help us all !”

Kaffy is married to Joseph Ameh, a drummer who she's older than with 8 years. In an Instagram post he once shared her husband described her as a virtuous woman.

"When you talk about a virtues woman this is exactly who you are referring to. Words cannot explain how much you mean to me, the only woman in the world that can tolerate all my BS and still call me baby with all the love in your eyes. I won't be where I am if you didn't kill yourself to make sure my dreams come to life. I celebrate you, I thank YHVH for giving you to me because you are a gift from above. Look at the two adorable Lil J and Lil hoodie k that you gave me. The way they are growing up fast and beautiful is just a reflection of how you are. Like I said before, words have failed me at this point... I love you to death and I appreciate every day that you bear my name... @kaffydance."