Man Discovers First Child Not His After 7 Years Of Marriage

 

A man who has been married for 7 years found out his first child isn’t his. However after the terrible discovery he chose to stay married to his wife and raise the child as his.

Celebrity and nightclub owner, Eze-Nwalie Nwogu popularly known as Pretty Mike of Lagos, who shared this on his Instagram page disclosed that he admired his friend's courage and commitment to stick to his wife.

He wrote,

"I see a lot of DNA issues online, I bet we all do. But nothing ever prepares you for the shock and confusion you feel, when close ones are the affected parties.

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"A friend who’s been married for 7 years just found out his first child isn’t his. Apparently his wife had been two-timing prior to their engagement and she had no idea that the pregnancy wasn’t his..Well he has chosen to stay married to her and raise the child as his. I can’t say I understand his pain but I do admire his tact and commitment in all this, it takes guts to do what he’s done… I’m not even sure I can do it. When I asked the reason behind his decision, he simply said “ the past 8 years have been the best years of my life “he said it to me with tears 😭 in his eyes…

"It made me think of how fickle many of us can be when the time comes to fulfill the part of the marital vows that says “for better for worse”. These days people get separated for much less than “worse”. Why take vows you can’t keep? With each passing day, our level of commitment dwindles. Many of us don’t even understand what it means to be loyal to a friend talk more of a spouse. "Commitment asides sef, the key question here is “are you forgivable? Many of you haven’t even cheated yet but your constant nagging and unbearable attitudes, eliminates the possibility of forgiveness in the face of a separation.

"Long story short, “Even with his wealth and her beauty/errors Dey chose to tough it out” and make something most people think it’s an abomination a solid bond that will stand the test of time😍…..

He opined that there's nothing wrong to train someone else's child.

"It’s totally fine to train another man’ child, that child could be that blessing u have been asking God in disguise🙏🏽"