"I Almost Got Married To A Bully" - Alex Unusual Spills

 

Former Big Brother Naija Season 3 housemate, Alexandra Asogwa, popularly known as Alex Unusual has shared how she almost got married to a bully. The man she courted usually hit her yet showed the world that they had a perfect relationship.

The model disclosed that she often wear expensive makeup to cover the black eye and her shame. Even though the man was rich she realised she couldn't continue. She was also scared of how her children will turn out.

The actress also made it known that his mother is also a bully. Constantly telling her to treat her son like a king so he won’t be upset and hit her. 

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She reasoned that there are relationships where people are free to be happy and she wanted that. She also wanted a happy family to. Therefore she sacrificed her toxic relationship before she sealed it by walking down the aisle.

"I almost got married last year. I mean I was proposed to but I chose me. I chose life. How can I be with someone that hits me? He always tried to show the world that we had a perfect relationship but I had a black eye and wore his expensive shades to cover it up. I can remember my caption when I posted that picture “Rich and getting it”. I had comments like “show us the way, cut soap for me, you are the fashionista”. My dear your fashionista was covering her shame. I could have chosen to stay with him, won’t my children have to constantly watch their mum being hit? What kind of effect will it have on them? Will they be traumatized? Will they become bullies? Will they learn to hurt others?. There are relationships where people are free to be happy. I wanted that. I wanted a happy family so, I sacrificed my unhealthy relationship before I sealed it. I saw the signs and did what I to do on time. Andre’s mother is also a bully. She will constantly tell me to treat her son like a king so he won’t be upset and hit me. He will but me for disagreeing with him, for complaining about his late nights, for smiling for too long, for not making fresh meals three times a day, for wanting to go out with friends," she wrote.

"In as much as he blames his character on his upbringing, “I was bullied in school, that’s why I hate being talked back at, my dad made me angry child, I am a Leo and you are aquarium Abi asparagus (whatever he calls it). Zodiac sign excuses to be animal. He is an adult now and should know what’s wrong and right. He is so rich but wealth doesn’t guarantee health.

All these were word from Udochi during our conversation lasted week. I understand where she is coming from. Society is blaming her for still being unmarried, social media trills are bullying as usual but I respect her decision. Choose you and your future today. Do not let your children become monsters because you chose to be wutg a monster. That’s if you’ll be alive to see your children after such decision. Don’t be with a bully”.