"So much Pain You Put Me Through" - Kemi Olunloyo Laments As She Discloses The Man Who Destroyed Her Life

 

 

Investigative journalist, Kemi Olunloyo has revealed the man responsible for destroying her life which has not been an easy, from the age of 22 and 54. She told of the trauma she went raising an autistic son, Enitan.

She never knew what it means to have fun, no parties, club or vacation, what young people do during university. She suffered only as a single mother raising a violent autistic son on her but managed to still get a first class degree.

The father of her autistic son is no other people but Babatunde Ogunade, the Vice President of Nigeria Basketball Federation and former Lagos State Chairman of a female basketball team D’TIGERS, who got her pregnant and called her a one night stand. He never reached out to Kemi and their son all these years until recently.

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To crown it all, baby daddy has turned their son against her and the son showing no gratitude to her.

She wrote,

"MY 34yo Asperger’s SON NO LONGER SPEAKS TO ME."

"The source of my ongoing anxiety. My oldest son’s father has never reached out to me before going to reunite with him in America. Enitan says his father Mr Babs Ogunade VP Nigerian Basketball Federation told him I kept him away when in fact we were abandoned, denied and owed $102,000 (N51M) child support from Feb 1987-2005. My son says he thought his father was DEAD before he was born and was told by Mr Ogunade that I prevented him from knowing his father. Meanwhile I suffered raising a violent autistic child who has now left that spectrum and is high functioning but still can’t process many facts of life.

"May God forgive you Babatunde. You destroyed my life. I never had a life between 22yo and 45yo. No parties, clubs, vacations etc what young people do in University. I was raising a baby lecturers held while I was taking exams. Other students babysat for me, sometimes I took the child on his carrier to class and still managed to get a first class degree. So much pain you put me through. Your mother who stood by you throughout is watching me vindicated now. "You fathered a child with me and called me a one night stand but never knew tomorrow. Now you turned my son against me.

"Thank you. You now have each other."